Money
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How should committed partners organize their money?
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When should partners disclose significant debt or financial obligations?
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Which approach to saving is most like you?
Questions for deep conversationsbefore you fall for someone.
Send your questionThe things people usually learn on date three, or in year three. Ask them on a date, with a partner, or with yourself. They come from the catalog people answer in Jastado to see how two lives fit together.
From the Jastado catalog
15 questions worth asking
There are no right answers here. Only honest ones, and a clearer picture of a life together.
Family
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If you were raising children, how would you prefer to balance caregiving and paid work?
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How involved should extended family be in a couple's major decisions?
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If an aging parent needed regular care, what role should the couple take?
Faith and values
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How important is sharing religious or spiritual practices at home?
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How much political disagreement can a relationship comfortably hold?
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How private should messages and personal devices remain in a relationship?
Love and conflict
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When something is bothering you, when do you prefer to talk about it?
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What most helps an apology feel sincere to you?
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When you are stressed, what kind of support do you usually prefer from a partner?
The future
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How open would you be to relocating for a partner's opportunity?
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How important is legal marriage to you in a lifelong relationship?
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How much independence should partners keep in a long-term relationship?
Your question
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About these questions
Where the questions come from, and how to add your own.
- What are good questions for deep conversations?
- Questions about how two lives would fit together: money, family, faith, conflict, independence and the future. Good ones have no right answer, only honest ones. For example: How should committed partners organize their money? Or: When something is bothering you, when do you prefer to talk about it?
- Where do these questions come from?
- From the Jastado question catalog. Jastado is a compatibility-first dating app. People answer these questions in the app and see how aligned they are with someone, question by question, before a first date.
- Can I submit my own question to Jastado?
- Yes. Join the Jastado waitlist for free on this page, or log in if you already joined. After you confirm your email, the question form opens on the same page. Write one clear question and four distinct answers someone could honestly pick.
- What happens after I submit a question?
- Your question is received, and only you see it in your list. The Jastado team reads every question and keeps the strongest for the shared catalog. Sending a question does not mean it will be used. You can edit or remove your question until we lock it.
- How many questions can I submit?
- You can have up to 5 questions received at a time. Each question needs exactly four different answers. A question can be up to 160 characters, and each answer up to 90.